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Lost money in stocks? Here's what to do now

Stop. Don't trade today. Then find out how big the loss really is, learn the math of getting back, and write a plan before your next move.

Beginner guide · 12-minute read · Updated 2026-10-28

First, the next 24 hours

You lost money. Maybe a little, maybe a lot. Your chest is tight and your head is loud. That's normal. Almost everyone who has ever owned a stock has felt this.

Here's the short answer: don't make a big move today. No selling everything. No buying more. No new trades to "fix it". A loss is a bad time to decide anything, because fear and hurt make the choice for you.

Do these five things instead, in this order:

  1. Close the app. Watching the number won't change it. It only makes the next choice worse.
  2. Write the number down. What did you put in? What is it worth now? Seeing it on paper makes it smaller than it feels.
  3. Check if you still need that money soon. Rent, bills, a car payment? That answer matters more than anything on a chart.
  4. Sleep on it. One night. The stock will still be there tomorrow, and so will your choices.
  5. Then read the rest of this page and pick your situation below.

You are not your loss. Losing money on a stock doesn't make you stupid. It makes you someone who took a risk and got hurt. What you do next is the part that counts.

Is the loss real yet? Paper loss vs locked-in loss

There are two kinds of loss, and they work differently.

A Paper loss is a loss on a stock you still own. The screen says you're down, but you haven't sold. A locked-in loss happens when you sell. Then the money is gone from that stock for good.

Paper loss (you still hold)Locked-in loss (you sold)
What the screen shows−$4,000 (hypothetical)−$4,000 (hypothetical)
Can it get bigger?Yes, if the stock keeps fallingNo
Can it shrink?Yes, if the stock risesOnly by buying back in, which is a new bet
Can it lower your taxes?NoOften, in a taxable account
What it feels likeHope and worry, every dayA clean, sharp hurt, then it's over

Neither one is "better". Holding isn't brave and selling isn't weak. The question is which one fits your plan, and most people who are hurting don't have a plan yet. That's what the rest of this page is for.

One tax note. A locked-in loss in a regular taxable account can often offset gains, but buying the same stock back too soon can cancel that. See Wash sale (options) for the US rule and the superficial loss rule for Canada. A loss inside an IRA, TFSA or RRSP doesn't cut your tax bill at all. Check the IRS or the CRA for your own case.

The math of getting back

This is the part nobody tells you. A loss and the gain that undoes it are not the same size.

If a stock falls 50%, it doesn't need to rise 50% to get you back. It needs to rise 100%. It has to double. That's because the gain is measured from the smaller number.

You lostOn $10,000 (hypothetical)LeftGain needed to get back
10%−$1,000$9,00011%
20%−$2,000$8,00025%
30%−$3,000$7,00043%
40%−$4,000$6,00067%
50%−$5,000$5,000100%
75%−$7,500$2,500300%

Try your own numbers in the loss recovery calculator. It takes ten seconds and it changes how you think about risk forever.

A worked example (hypothetical): how a loss turns into a bigger one

Sam puts $10,000 into a made-up stock, XYZ, at $50 a share. That's 200 shares. XYZ falls to $30. Sam is down −$4,000. To get back, the $6,000 left needs to grow 67%.

Sam can't stand waiting. Sam sells and puts the $6,000 into a hot stock everyone is talking about, to "make it back faster". That stock falls 25%.

StepWhat Sam doesMoney leftLoss so farGain needed to get back
StartBuys 200 XYZ at $50$10,000$0—
XYZ falls to $30Holds, panics$6,000−$4,00067%
Sells, buys the hot stockChases$6,000−$4,00067%
Hot stock falls 25%Holds, panics again$4,500−$5,500122%

The first loss was painful. The second one did the real damage. The hole went from needing 67% to needing 122%, and it took one rushed choice to get there.

The lesson in one line: the first loss is rarely what sinks people. The trade made to undo it usually is.

What not to do next

These are the moves that turn a bad week into a bad year. Each one feels smart in the moment.

Find your situation

Every loss is a little different. Pick the one that sounds like you:

Write a one-page plan before your next trade

The single biggest change you can make is this: decide your rules on a calm day, and write them down. A rule you invent while scared is a guess. A rule you wrote last week is a plan.

Your page needs five lines:

  1. How much of my money goes into one stock. Pick a cap. Write it down. Use the position size calculator if you trade.
  2. The most I'll lose before I act. "If any stock falls 25% from my buy price, I review it within 24 hours." A Stop loss is the trader's version.
  3. What I'll do then. Reread why I bought it. Ask: would I buy it today, at this price? If no, I sell. If yes, I hold, and I don't add.
  4. The 24-hour rule. No big buy or sell on the same day as a big drop.
  5. Where I log it. Every buy and sell, with one line on why and how I felt. See how to keep a trading journal.

Keep it to one page. If your plan doesn't fit on one page, you won't read it when you need it. For a fuller template, see how to write a trading plan.

Scared to start again? A slower way back

Some people lose money once and never invest again. That's a second loss, a quiet one. You don't have to rush back. But you can come back slowly, with smaller steps.

Spread it out. One stock can fall a lot. Many stocks rarely all fall together the same way. How many stocks should a beginner own lays out the choices, including one broad Index fund.

Buy in pieces, on a schedule. Dollar-cost averaging means putting in the same amount each month. It takes the "is today the right day?" stress away. It won't stop a fall, though. Broad markets have fallen and stayed down for years before, and single stocks can go to zero.

Get paid to wait. Some people come back by selling options on stocks they already own or would be happy to own. A Covered call collects a premium on shares you hold. A cash-secured put collects a premium while you wait to buy a stock at a lower price. Together they make the wheel strategy. The stock can still fall, so the share risk needs the same plan.

If you go that way, you'll need options approval from your broker:

In Canada, covered calls are widely allowed in a TFSA or RRSP, but cash-secured puts depend on the broker. Options permissions differ by broker everywhere.

Questions

Should I sell my stocks after a big loss?

Not today. Wait 24 hours, then ask one question: would I buy this stock today, at this price, with fresh money? If the answer is no, selling makes sense. If yes, holding does, but don't add more until you have a written plan.

Will my stock come back?

Nobody knows. Some do, some take years, and some never do. Broad markets have recovered from past crashes, but that's history for a whole market, not a promise for one stock.

How do I stop feeling sick about the money I lost?

Write the number down, close the app, and talk to someone you trust. Then turn the loss into one new rule. A loss that teaches you a rule has done something useful.

Is it smart to buy more to lower my average price?

Only if it was your plan before the drop and you'd still buy it fresh today. Buying more to "get back faster" grows the position just as the stock is proving it can fall. Bought a stock at the top shows the numbers.

Can I use the loss to lower my taxes?

Often, if you sold in a regular taxable account. Buying the same stock back too soon can cancel it, and losses in an IRA, TFSA or RRSP don't count.

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